Facebooking is fun! I spend most of my online social times on Facebook as it is currently the only platform where I can easily get in touch with most of my friends, acquaintances, blog readers as well as my customers who communicate with me through private messaging.
I am rather careful though, with the kind of status message I share on my pages. For a start, I think people would generally respond to specific happy posts, the funny ones and sometimes the sad disappointing ones. However, if there are one too many repeated posts on the same negative feelings from the same person time and again, I will be sorely put off. Sorry, but its the truth.
It is one thing to share and update about our lives with friends on Facebook, but it is another when all one does is post up sorry, crabby moments every other hour. Though there are certainly no boundaries about sharing our pesky, malicious or peeved thoughts about an encounter we've had but surely we should know our limits?
Facebook is certainly not an open diary though there are times when I may share displeased thoughts but I think what makes a difference is the way we express ourselves and choice of words.
As much as I can, I will keep negative or angry feelings to myself. If I need to vent, I would usually share it with friends over a private chat, just to get it off my chest.
It just wouldn't do anyone any good and reflects poorly of oneself.
Rule of thumb : it's not nice to air your dirty laundry in public, especially if it concerns the family.
It just wouldn't do anyone any good and reflects poorly of oneself.
There is already too much gloom in this world. If we have to share a status on Facebook, surely we can post a happy and positive note for all to share the good vibes.
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Yeah, I agree. I am also trying not to be too negative. We've the news for that already :p
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